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Thursday, May 25, 2006

Passing Thoughts on Some “H” Topics


Happiness - A state of contentment reached by decision, south of envy and north of disappointment.

Hazing - Process by which previously chosen people initiate by menace newly chosen people. The Original Hazing in the Garden of Eden seemed innocent enough, but ever since Eve fell for the apple trick, hazing has degenerated.

Health - Our mental and physical condition. In the US today, two enormous industries that have a financial stake in our health are the food industry and the medical industry. The former makes money selling us unhealthy foods and the latter makes money treating our poor health.

Hiking - Walking for the fun of it - even if sometimes it is hard work. Trails in undeveloped areas afford walkers the opportunity to celebrate nature and the environment while getting some healthy exercise

Hillary - Almost in a category by herself. Smarter than Bill and with much less libido, but not in his league for charisma. This heartland born and raised, hard working, conservative dressing, loving mother who stood by her man gives many on the political right apoplexy, the ignorant resenting her intellectual prowess and the intelligentsia fearing her abilities. How will her political biological clock wind down?

History - Defined as learning from knowledge of past facts and events, for many people today history has been reduced to what the controllers of the curriculum and media allow to be seen and heard. But people willing to do some searching, at the library and on the Internet, at least in free nations, can access a vastly broader spectrum of historical materials.

Hitler - If he had never been born, would the Nazis have found a substitute? Has any one person in history ever been responsible for so much human misery?

Home Improvement - Judging by the shows on the Home & Garden Channel, improvement means depersonalizing a home to neutral anonymity, in order to attract buyers who will re-do it in accordance with their own desires. Sort of like some women do when choosing men.

Homosexual
- A scientific word that never became comfortable for non-scientific people to use, especially homophobic ones. None of the usually derogatory substitute words for homosexual include “sex”, possibly because using that word to categotize people by their sexual nature reminds us that we can all be categorized sexually, and homophobic people are not comfortable discussing sexuality. They prefer to call homosexuals a non-sexual name, so they can distinguish themselves by contrast, such as “gay” not being “straight”.

Hope
- Though hope can be an unhealthy way of avoiding the present, it can also be a reason to keep living for those facing despondency. But most of the time our expressions of hope are more casual, involving matters that are not that earthshaking. Nevertheless, if we spend too much time casually hoping, then we are not truly living in the present.

Housing - The roof over your head. Some of us think we own our homes, but that is a matter of degree. Non-payment of mortgage installments and property taxes or other unpaid debt reduced to court judgment can result in losing a home. Home ownership in our society is considered a worthwhile goal, but there are still nomadic people by choice in the world today, and many seem quite happy moving their yurts.

Hype
- From the Greek word for “throwing beyond”, like a wild pitch. When watching TV, everything other than the scheduled programming is usually hype, and sometimes the programming also deserves that description.

6 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tome,
You mentioned only one of the three theological virtues: Hope. I know you left Faith out of the f's and I don't remember seeing Charity in the c's. And you are much too hard on hope. When discussing these three virtues which most people do none of the time, we think of Faith as a belief is a personal Supreme Being. Hope is a wish that we will be saved. And Charity is alms giving or, at least, loving your neighbor.

But I read something by a wise man whose name I have forgotten that made those theological virtues very real and meaningful to me. I will try to summarize.

Faith is the belief (better, the inner strength) that no matter what we will encounter in the future, we will be able to deal with it. Whether or not it is God who is guiding us, this confidence blows away a lot of fear and self doubt.

Hope is the feeling that something wonderful, or at least interesting, is going to happen soon. It's what keeps us going in this life no matter how dreary it is for some of us. I had that feeling just last week when I hopped on a plane to see my 91 year old mother-in-law in Chicago. And, sure enough, we had some delightful visits. Hope is a wonderful force that drives us to greatness. Don't you think Newton was motivated by the hope he would understand the laws governing the moon rotating around the earth? We don't hope for world peace; we hope for a reason to stay alive. And most of us, the emotionally healthy, find many, many reasons for that.

Charity is the understanding that everyone has a place on this earth, no matter how different they are. Christ told it best in the parable of the Good Samaritan. Today the Samaritan would be a Muslim. Or in Phoenix, an undocumented immigrant. In fact, I have a story about a Mexican helping my wife after she had a flat tire, and refusing her attempts to pay him. He told her that maybe she would be able to help his countrymen who don't speak English. That was eerie because she was volunteer teacher of ESL at the time. Was my wife being charitable when she taught ESL for nothing? Decidely YES, by this definition. But her motivation for volunteering probably stemmed from Hope.

Faith, Hope, and Charity: fundamental virtues that make life worthwhile.

John from Phoenix

6:11 PM  
Blogger Tom Blake said...

Well said, and in spite of my skeptical nature and sometimes cynical style, I agree that:

(1)We will be able to deal with the future (faith);

(2)Life is worth living (hope); and,

(3)Everyone has a place on earth (charity).

3:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Hitler - has any one person in history been responsible for so much human misery?" The quick answer is yes, Hitler himself. But I suppose you mean anybody other than Hitler.

I just happen to be listening to the Teaching Company's Foundations of western Civilization II. The Professor had a most moving lecture on the holocaust. He asked the same question. First he said he did not like ranking human tragedies like football teams. Then he went on to say Hitler was numero uno. He then listed a large number of slaughters starting with the Spanish Inquistion and proceeding to Hitler and Stalin. His rationale for thinking Hitler was the worst in history was that no other leader has put to death a targeted people on such a grand scale. Of course that would be Jews, but Hitler did broaden it to gypsies and homosexuals. Supposedly the Pope remained silent for fear Hitler would also target Catholics.

I am also reading Stalin, The Court of the Red Tsar by Simon Sebag Montefiore. It is a kind of chatty history of the life of Stalin and the people next to him, both politically and his family. It is an unmitigated tale of torture and death. Stalin killed many millions more of his own people that Hitler did. He started by putting down a peasant revolt by starving millions of them. He then turned on his own party members, cleansing their ranks so there would be no Trotskite opposition. After that he turned on the military killing the top generals and admirals of the armed forces. Then, when WWII broke out, he found his military leaderless, he solved that problem by killing even more. He also turned on his own family killing many close members. A sure way for a relative to get killed was to beg Stalin to pardon another family member.

Is Hitler's targeted killing really worse than Stalin's indiscriminate killing?

I agree that ranking evil doers is meaningless. But because I am just now reading about Stalin in a very well researched and written biography, I cannot imagine anybody worse.

And I don't know anything about the Hutu's and the Tutsi's, another bloodletting in our century, the 20th.

I only hope that, looking to the future, our century will be remembered as the bloodiest in history, and that mankind somehow came to its senses after it.

John from Phoenix

8:13 PM  
Blogger Tom Blake said...

Brutal, ruthless dictators seem to know how to appeal to the lowest nature of a populace to build a strong political base. Many of those to whom dictators dictate live in mortal fear, but many of their subjects also worship them, and that is almost incomprehensible. Dictators seem to rise from the void left by ineffective or non-existent government. George W. Bush tried to act like a dictator, but there was no void for him to fill. He used 9/11 to try to create dictatorial fear in some Muslim nations, but that has backfired. Some fools in the US still worship him, but most of those who supported him now wish they hadn’t.

9:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The only good thing about W being reelected is that he has to face the judgements of his policies now instead of waiting for future historians to document them.
John from Phoenix

9:10 PM  
Blogger Tom Blake said...

It is good to see Bush having his face rubbed in the results of his incompetence, but it is too bad it comes at the expense of so many others.

9:53 AM  

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